Do I find inner peace when I look for it?
Commentary by José Parés Pérez, Concepción, Chile.
Every search represents the desire for something that we believe we do not have. Seeking a peace that we believe we cannot attain, distances us from the possibility of finding it.
It is a search that we carry out by imitating others because we deceive ourselves by not finding it within us. And we do not find it, because we live outside our lives. If I do not pay attention to my present life, I lose the ability to learn from the experiences that I live. We know very little about ourselves.
We spend our lives seeking what we believe we do not have. And the great truth is that we already are all that we would wish to be. Deep down, what we all look for is inner peace, feeling satisfied with what we already are.
If we lose our inner peace it is because we believe that we lack something that we desire. And that makes us lose our inner peace. It is a clear contradiction, an inconsistency of which we are not always aware.
Generally we blame ourselves and we do not accept it, we usually feel annoyed about something we dislike and we want it to change, we are rather scared about our future and we worry. We deprive ourselves of our inner peace and then we go looking for it.
If you want inner peace, do not seek it, because it is inside you; you are already all that you are expected to be, pay attention, take an interest in yourself, be aware of your present life, accept yourself as you are, and you will be at peace. Stop searching for what you already are.